Sunday, 22 June 2014

My responsibilities

Assalamualaikum...

Hi y'all!!

Ok this post it's more about what are my responsibilities as a wife to my husband & to my family & family in-laws... you may think it's an easy task to do but not really :-) ok so here the list of the most Important

1. Always obey your husband & never argue
- This is a part of our religion as well. In Islam our pathway to heaven is always listen to your husband & obey his rules for the good ways. Disobeying him only gives unhappiness marriage to happen & pathways to Hell... Who would wanted that anyway kan?? So always listens to your husband as long it does not against the Islamic & common laws & you may have a happily married life...trust me ;-)
If an argument is a must, find point where you can improve it & learn from the mistakes.

2. always respect your husband & his families
- This part is very important too.. You know why 'cause when you married your husband, you'll married with his family too..your family & husbands family sharing the bond together & yes it's also a part of the religion too. We came from a mix families btw... Same goes to my husband too (he's a Muaalaf) we Muslims & Christian families shared our most respected & devoted to each other...we're not like some judgemental people who thinks we're totally sesat arah or so..I'm proud of being in a mix diversity & respectful to each others religion anyway....

3. Always have a honest conversation (even truth hurts but lies are even worst!)
- be honest no matter in the house or in bed, tell the truth of what you felt or feel want to express something came to your mind. Part of a successful marriage is conversation.

4. Always love your spouse!
- Key point here is to have a healthy relationship (I'm not talking of sex here ok?) It's more about how passionate your love to your husband / wife?? Every hugs, kiss & fondling always the best thing ever to spark your love life. Trust me...it works all the time minus the sex. Marriage is not always about sex you know... Keep it simple. Always love your spouse. ^_^v

5. Commit to each other 
- Don't let your wife do all the jobs , after a long day at work & now gotta do the house chores & cooking is not  an easy thing really I've felt it ...Do simple work makes me sweat a LOT! O_O . So dear husbands, please help your wives while doing house works Don't be the Maharajalela (Reigns) at home ya. Even the Rasulullah SAW (peace and blessings be upon him) He helped his wife to ease her lethargy at work.



Ok so far I got this .....Will continue later ya ^_^ .

Peace!

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