Sunday, 29 June 2014

Ramadhan As a Wife & what are the benefits of fasting ^_^

Assalamualaikum...

Hi Ya'll ..This year it's been exiting for me 'cause it's Ramadhan a.k.a Puasa Month! Alhamdulillah get to celebrate with my husband. Never been very super exited for this in my whole life. Alhamdulillah, Allah gave me most priceless gift ever, a Husband. Hehe even so, last year before he was a Muaalaf, he fasts too. Just this year it's so meaningful. Ok now, lets talk about Puasa (Fasting Month) and what are the benefits for fasting:-

When I was young, I usually frown when it’s fasting month but as I grew older, I realize  other benefits of Ramadhan.

1. Lose Weight

Eat less during iftar (buka puasa) and sahur. Best, try to lower rice and sugar intake by at least half. Every Ramadhan, I lose about 8-13 kg, you can too.

2. Stay at Home or Go to Mosque

I hate going out during fasting (day). It drains energy drastically, what more beat the crowd in a Jumbo Sale. I usually do shopping early morning (11am-ish).

3. Save Money

Since I don’t eat lunch or mid-day snacks. I save money and traveling expenses too. Most people spend a lot at Bazaars, I would only buy something that I will actually EAT. Remember, waste is a crime.

4. Remembering the Dead

The least you could do is dedicate your prayers to your loved one. (I still miss my grandpa, my makwa & my uncle ) This is also the time for you to sink deep into yourself, and think, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR THE WORLD?

5. Quit Smoking

One of the many ultimate solution to quit smoking, well, not quit, but at least reduce tars in your lungs. But I believe this is a personal decision. If you don’t want to, that’s your choice.

6. Let it Go

Anger consume lots of energy. So if you’re stuck in traffic, blaming non-muslim for getting off work early, you should cool down. Try to channel that energy else where. I usually dance in my car (or sing-alongs).

7. Eat Less At Buffet

Typical corporate people has at least 2 buffet Iftars. The key to eat buffet is, “Food Tasting” (a little bit of everything). Start off with 2-3 kueh and kurma, go do Maghrib prayer. Come back and start your food tasting. Remember to sip your drink, no bottoms up.
7 is good enough.
~Here's are Other things to know about Ramadhan.

1. Picking Nose Doesn’t Void Fasting

I’ve asked many ustaz & imam about this, they agreed, korek hidung tak batalkan puasa (Picking a nose won't void fasting). Islam emphasizes on cleanliness and nose picking is one of them.

2. No Such Thing as Fadhilat Terawih

So if you go back to your home town and see this on the Surau’s board, tell them to take it down. It’s your responsibility to keep other Muslims in the know.
Wishing you a happy Ramadhan and most importantly, Behave ^_^

Happy Ramadhan to all Muslims all over the world. In Shaa Allah we'll gain miracles & blessings from The Almighty. Amin....

Sunday, 22 June 2014

My responsibilities

Assalamualaikum...

Hi y'all!!

Ok this post it's more about what are my responsibilities as a wife to my husband & to my family & family in-laws... you may think it's an easy task to do but not really :-) ok so here the list of the most Important

1. Always obey your husband & never argue
- This is a part of our religion as well. In Islam our pathway to heaven is always listen to your husband & obey his rules for the good ways. Disobeying him only gives unhappiness marriage to happen & pathways to Hell... Who would wanted that anyway kan?? So always listens to your husband as long it does not against the Islamic & common laws & you may have a happily married life...trust me ;-)
If an argument is a must, find point where you can improve it & learn from the mistakes.

2. always respect your husband & his families
- This part is very important too.. You know why 'cause when you married your husband, you'll married with his family too..your family & husbands family sharing the bond together & yes it's also a part of the religion too. We came from a mix families btw... Same goes to my husband too (he's a Muaalaf) we Muslims & Christian families shared our most respected & devoted to each other...we're not like some judgemental people who thinks we're totally sesat arah or so..I'm proud of being in a mix diversity & respectful to each others religion anyway....

3. Always have a honest conversation (even truth hurts but lies are even worst!)
- be honest no matter in the house or in bed, tell the truth of what you felt or feel want to express something came to your mind. Part of a successful marriage is conversation.

4. Always love your spouse!
- Key point here is to have a healthy relationship (I'm not talking of sex here ok?) It's more about how passionate your love to your husband / wife?? Every hugs, kiss & fondling always the best thing ever to spark your love life. Trust me...it works all the time minus the sex. Marriage is not always about sex you know... Keep it simple. Always love your spouse. ^_^v

5. Commit to each other 
- Don't let your wife do all the jobs , after a long day at work & now gotta do the house chores & cooking is not  an easy thing really I've felt it ...Do simple work makes me sweat a LOT! O_O . So dear husbands, please help your wives while doing house works Don't be the Maharajalela (Reigns) at home ya. Even the Rasulullah SAW (peace and blessings be upon him) He helped his wife to ease her lethargy at work.



Ok so far I got this .....Will continue later ya ^_^ .

Peace!